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COUNSELOR'S CORNER |
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Thursday, March 27 2014
Your Brain as a Car
- Driver sits on the Front left side
- Thinks
- Makes Decisions
- Freewill sits in this sit
- This part controls the wheel, brakes, and gas
- The Adult part of the brain
- Is confused or overwhelmed by stress
- Stress comes from outside/other drivers
- Stress comes from inside/other passengers
- Bottom line Behavior sits in this seat—this is what you do
- The Navigator sits on the right front side
- This is your conscience
- Your moral values and belief system resides here
- This is your Parent within
- This part has the map and looks where you have been, where you are, and where you are heading
- It influences the Driver by telling the Driver what it Believes you should be doing
- It feels guilty about the past (what you did or did not do)
- It feels worried or concerned about the present (what you are doing or not doing)
- It feels anxious about the future (where you are or are not heading)
- It is in continual dialogue with the Driver while keeping alert and watchful of the other passenger in the backseat
- The Child sits in the backseat
- All the primary emotions of anger, fear, and joy reside here
- Anger, fear, and joy can be combined to make all the other emotions
- The child sits in front of a surround sound movie screen that has all the memories/movies of the past
- Movies/memories can be past, present, or future if stored as real
- The child does not know the difference between real and imagined
- The child thinks in pictures, images, and emotions but not so much in words
- The child sees what is going on in the front seat and senses if the two adults in the front are in agreement
- The child also looks out the window of the car but sees like a child and not an adult
- The emergency brake—the fight/flight mechanism is in the backseat with the child
- Therefore the child does not drive the car but can cause it to brake and can hijack the brain
- The child is not immoral but amoral
- The child moves towards pleasure and away from pain
- Memories of pain are stored in twice the chemical quantity as pleasurable memories at the cellular level
- The child works on Feelings and emotions regardless of whether they are real or not they are real to the child
- Congruence or harmony is where the Adult, Parent, and Child are in agreement
- All information comes into and is screened by the amygdala—the part that directs all sensory data throughout the brain
- The wiring from the amygdala is shorter to the back of the brain—the child, then the front of the brain—the adults
- Therefore we react before we think and are then left to explain are actions to ourselves and others
- As a man/person thinks in his heart (his inner child) so is he
- Out of the heart (the inner child) the mouth speaks
- In Romans 7:14-28 Paul describes the conflict between the child and the adult parts of the brain
- In Romans the 8th chapter he describes how we have to learn to walk by the Spirit and not be sight
- The insula is the GPS or God Positioning System that fires into the gut
- Our gut level feelings are up to 70% accurate
- Decisions made in the brain and not the gut are only on the average 25% accurate
- We need to learn to trust our gut
- The insula is more active and developed in people who meditate and pray
- Bottom line: All parts of the brain need to listen to the insula and learn to trust our gut
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